I can remember in high school wanting to be exactly like the cool kids, pants sagging down to my knees, hat backwards and and a baseball jersey. That to me was cool.
Then there were the other kids who decided to be totally off the wall and didn't follow any style but their own, they were considered to be unique and misunderstood.
As we grow up, we often try and keep up with the neighbors to stay one step ahead and always look like we are doing better than our friends, this is how adults feel they are unique.
Unique is something we are as individuals and cannot be distinguished from things we buy.
I want to show you how unique you are with 3 simple aspects we all have that make us into the individuals we are today without having to buy anything to show off.
#1- LIFE EXPERIENCES
We all have life experiences, and no one can take these from us. People we've met, places we've been and different adventures we've been on. Positive or negative we all take away small life lesson that we are able to teach the world, we just need to grab people's attention.
Whether it's a weight loss struggle you've had, a business lesson you have gone through or even something as simple as a great recipe you've invented. Share your stories, the world is waiting.
#2- GOALS AND DREAMS
We all have personal goals and dreams, life teaches us what our passion are and through our passions we develop our goals and dreams.
As some of you may know one of my goals is to become a professional speaker but this wasn't always the case. I developed this goal through a life experience, I seen a great motivational speaker, I took that experience and immediately knew I had I burning desire to stand on stage and speak to people.
Before that goal I had another, I was a DJ. I would entertain crowds at weddings, large events and bars. This goal was developed at the age of 14 while watching a DJ at a party who couldn't get anyone on the dance floor, I made myself a promise as I left that I would become the best DJ around and I would fill dance floors every night. That dream gave me a 15 year career to which I still have intense passion for.
The past teaches us how to use our mind, body and personality. We make our decisions based upon what we think will be the best solution to our problems. The future, holds our goals and dreams and we move at different speeds towards our goals them depending on how badly we want them.
We take what we have learned and where we want to go and through this we develop our outer selves. Our personality traits, our movements and even our relationships all come down to what we have learned and where we are going.
Now as you can see no two people can be exactly the same, we have all learned different things in life and we are all headed in different directions. We are so unique there is no need to prove it we just need to tell our stories to the world..