How to effectively make a complaint.
Have you ever gotten upset and tried to change things in an organization, service or a business? Sure we all have and it usually involves doing one of two things:
1. We mumble to ourselves all kinds of obscene words and violent acts about the complaint.
2. We flip out and think we get our way by being rude and mean towards someone.
Yesterday I dealt with a number 2-
So when faced with more complaints yesterday, I layed out an easy solution for this person to follow, nothing difficult, simply a solution. Well this person did not like my answer and proceeded to flip out on me attacking my personality, cursing at me and attacking me personally (customer service industry usual).
I understand I cannot please everyone in this world and not everyone will like me. I can accept this, but it brings me to why I'm writing this today. I want people to understand how to effectively make a complaint.
1. Be nice
If you want something changed, you must learn to persuade by being nice and not rude. You want people to accept your way of thinking and not make them angry. The second you upset someone, they always resort to there own defense mechanism and never want to hear you out.
2. Complain to the right people
This is where this person always goes wrong. They complain about something I have no control over, yes I can be a listener but when I cannot change it so why yell at me?
It's almost like yelling at the delivery person because you ordered no onions on your pizza yet the cook added onions. The delivery person can only do so much but they did not put onions on your pizza.
3. Just walk away
If nothing is happening complaint after complaint, that means the way you are complaining is not working. Just walk away, I'm sorry to say but you are probably in the wrong (I know you don't want to hear that). If you complain over and over and you never get results you simply become the person that people in the organization, business or service are complaining about. You become a larger problem than the actual complaint.
Coming for a customer service industry I want you to understand, a complaint can help you but it can also hurt your credibility. Everybody can appreciate feedback, but not many can understand criticism.
The day you become angry, irrate or violent toward someone is the day you lose the battle. You lose respect in the eyes of the person you attack. Learn to be nice to people, that is the best method to get your way. When you deal with a human being, understand you are also a human being and people like to be treated the same way you do. Sure you may get bad service or not get your way...but it's life. You cannot always get your way. I know there books and courses that claim life should be grand but it isn't always that way. This is how we learn, by not always getting what we want.
Do you deserve the best in life, the answer is yes! But you must earn it.